Question Most Things: 'The ABCs Of Happiness'
Dear friend
Are you the 'questioning type' of person? In Robert Valet's The ABCs Of Happiness, he prescribes for letter Q - "Question most things."
I happen to be this type of person who questions most things: For example, if someone has said something that was unclear to me, I ask what was said and what it really meant, or - if I understood correctly what I heard or what it was really meant to be. By so doing, I keep my inner peace and maintain my happiness when clarity prevails. No question marks hanging in the air. Then, I could move on with my business and say at the end - "Yes...that's what I meant,"..."That's what I wanted to know....," "Exactly what I thought!"
I find it very difficult for me to deal with people who try to appear they understand things when in fact they don't, and try to absorb everything in their minds like a soaked sponge but never understood a thing or, even if they have doubts, they never open their mouths to ask a question and, when they come to a crunch,get messed up and go in a state of confusion and don't know what to say; their ONLY OPTION is to blame the nearest person who is with them or closest to them. They never take accountability for their shortcomings - NEVER! Their minds are too little to accept responsibility for the misunderstandings or errors they find themselves in.These negative and annoying instances easily rob off your moments of happiness when they could readily be avoided.
Also, another tip to maintain YOUR personal happiness is to be ASSERTIVE, for once. Speak your mind; say what you think or believe whether the listener accepts what you say or not. Speak your TRUTH the best way you can. Say what is in the bottom of your heart, if you need to. I find that being vocal with my opinions, thoughts and ideas eliminate the gap of misunderstanding and useless arguments and waste of time and energy on all parties concerned.
Sometimes - or many times - people are unable to think rationally and can not see the other side of the coin or the point of discussion because plainly, they refuse to think and use their brains. If you can think rationally, that's also your other tip in The ABCs of Happiness, according to Robert Valet.
I would suggest that you train your minds to "Question most things." It is worth the effort and worth your happiness. Start it NOW!
To Your Success, Happiness And Wellbeing!
Letty R. Vendramini
$Million Dollar International Speaker
Founder/Creator - Best Secrets To Happiness
www.BestSecretsToHappiness.com/
www.7PowerWords.com/
http://vendramini.successuniversity.com/
'Happiness Tips Newsletter'
Email: letty@bestsecretstohappiness.com
letty@vendramini.org
Are you the 'questioning type' of person? In Robert Valet's The ABCs Of Happiness, he prescribes for letter Q - "Question most things."
I happen to be this type of person who questions most things: For example, if someone has said something that was unclear to me, I ask what was said and what it really meant, or - if I understood correctly what I heard or what it was really meant to be. By so doing, I keep my inner peace and maintain my happiness when clarity prevails. No question marks hanging in the air. Then, I could move on with my business and say at the end - "Yes...that's what I meant,"..."That's what I wanted to know....," "Exactly what I thought!"
I find it very difficult for me to deal with people who try to appear they understand things when in fact they don't, and try to absorb everything in their minds like a soaked sponge but never understood a thing or, even if they have doubts, they never open their mouths to ask a question and, when they come to a crunch,get messed up and go in a state of confusion and don't know what to say; their ONLY OPTION is to blame the nearest person who is with them or closest to them. They never take accountability for their shortcomings - NEVER! Their minds are too little to accept responsibility for the misunderstandings or errors they find themselves in.These negative and annoying instances easily rob off your moments of happiness when they could readily be avoided.
Also, another tip to maintain YOUR personal happiness is to be ASSERTIVE, for once. Speak your mind; say what you think or believe whether the listener accepts what you say or not. Speak your TRUTH the best way you can. Say what is in the bottom of your heart, if you need to. I find that being vocal with my opinions, thoughts and ideas eliminate the gap of misunderstanding and useless arguments and waste of time and energy on all parties concerned.
Sometimes - or many times - people are unable to think rationally and can not see the other side of the coin or the point of discussion because plainly, they refuse to think and use their brains. If you can think rationally, that's also your other tip in The ABCs of Happiness, according to Robert Valet.
I would suggest that you train your minds to "Question most things." It is worth the effort and worth your happiness. Start it NOW!
To Your Success, Happiness And Wellbeing!
Letty R. Vendramini
$Million Dollar International Speaker
Founder/Creator - Best Secrets To Happiness
www.BestSecretsToHappiness.com/
www.7PowerWords.com/
http://vendramini.successuniversity.com/
'Happiness Tips Newsletter'
Email: letty@bestsecretstohappiness.com
letty@vendramini.org
posted by Letty R.Vendramini at
11/26/2007 10:46:00 PM
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